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Saturday, March 20, 2010

Week 2

We have really enjoyed our second week here. The sun is out and we are feeling hot, hot, hot! It's going to change again next week but hey, Jamie and Poppy are loving it! We had an appointment with Dr. Maris on Wednesday and handed over the all important signed consent forms. What we are about to embark on with Jamie seems very scary as day by day Jamie is improving sooo much! His behaviour has really changed, his confidence and laughter, laughter which I have not heard for so long when he is playing!!

At the hospital Jamie helped celebrate St Patrick's day by searching for Shamrocks!! He was lead by the hand of a girl slightly older than him who seemed to take him under her wing. There were no arguments from Jamie!!! When it was time for Jamie to have his labs done [line cleaned, dressings changes, blood taken...] he was much calmer than the previous week. It was reassuring to hear some other poor kids scream in the other room. For once I was thinking "Thank goodness, its not Jamie!!" We met the dietitian for the Oncology ward and we have agreed to hold off with the feeding tube until next week. Jamie is likely to lose his appetite with the radiotherapy so will need nutrition anyway. We will see how he goes and when the time comes, they will insert the tube whilst he is under General for radiotherapy.

We also had a tour of the Oncology ward. I was speechless by the size of the children's rooms, there is even a sofa for the parents [although I think this is the parents bed!] The play room was beautiful and Jamie liked it so much that he thought he was staying! When we explained that he was in fact just visiting, he had the most almighty tantrum. I don't think we are going to have any issues with the talk about staying in hospital!!!

Over the next two weeks for radiotherapy, we are hoping to stay in the Ronald McDonald house, 15 mins away from CHOP. Our host family are wonderful but they live in New Jersey, a little drive from Phili. We have to be at CHOP for 7.30am everyday for two weeks and to get the children up and processed and in the car is a bit much and we can't be late!! Also we are hoping that Jamie will be well enough to play and join in the activities that they lay on and for us as parents we will get to meet other families, in particular, the Higgins family. Well done to their daughter Robyn, who is about to start her third round of antibodies! We are looking forward to meeting her and her mum Lisa.

We hope to return to New Jersey for the weekend. Jamie adores Barbara and Henry, our hosts and has been particularly intrigued with Henry's Porridge that he has each morning!! Barbara kindly offered to sit with Jamie last night, [Poppy was already in bed] so that John and I could go and get something to eat in the Diner. We ended up bringing half of it home as I am still not used to their portion sizes!!

Jamie talks about Dusseldorf and today said "I miss Dana [one of his German angels]. I think she has a sweet face!!" Such a special team of people and I know that Jamie really does miss them.

After what has been an unusual week for us in that as a family we have been able to do all the stuff that gets taken for granted, reality hits home AGAIN next week as we embark on the next phase. Lets hope that Jamie has few side effects and keeps well. He is going to need all his strength over the next coming months.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, as I don't often get the chance to update, when I do update the entries are lengthy!

Thank you to all of you that are still supporting the fundraising efforts, you know who you are and I can't possibly name everyone but just know that it is still helping!!!

Love to everyone from us all in the sun!!!

4 comments:

Tom said...

Vicky + John,
Great to see that all is coming along nicely at the moment. We all hope that the radiotherapy goes well and that the side effects are minimal. It is comforting to know that your host family are so supportive of you all and that you can and I am sure will have some form of normality when the treatment is ongoing. Stay safe out there and give my love to all of the family.
Tom xxxx

Unknown said...

So glad to hear that you have had a happy, "normal" week. Will be praying for you all as Jamie starts radiotherapy tomorrow. Hang on in there - it will be worth it! At least it sounds as though Jamie will appreciate the facilities!! Lots of love from us all, Heather xx

Unknown said...

Sending lots of love xx

Unknown said...

Thanks so much for all the updates. So glad Jamie is in such good hands!